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Topic 61: Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children. Use specific reasons and examples to support your opinion.
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This assay is about a concern that whether the elders have the right to take decisions for the teenagers or not. I Think, I\'ll go with the first Idea for two reasons; because teenagers are not mature enough and lack of knowledge. Read more... - ... by shruti
In this morden world all the people are recent with morden style. some people always think that they are look like morden and they also learn to their children that they are very morden so some time children do not understand very well and they go to the bed things and they not know what they do but in this culter people also belive in honest, truth and many other good things but when the parents sujjest to their childen they do not realise about their parents.people always thinkin that their children go in right way but some time children go very fast to bed side and parents things are very bed about them. Read more... - The Adult And Young... by voeltogo
In my opinion, I think that adults should not make all the decisions. Everyone have their own thinkings. There are three points as followed. Read more... - parents should advice teenage students... by sunitha
parents are the best teachers.they are better in guiding and motivating in a right path.although teachers are best evaluators of the students knowledge , teachers play a high value in shaping the teenage.So i believe parents should advice teenage students. Because they are motivating and guiding for a better life. Read more... - No room for Art... by John Smith
Arabia has its mathematics, China its paper, printing, gunpowder and fireworks,
America its space travel, nuclear power, internet technology and so on. Civilization is
revered first for its technology and second for its culture. Economies are based not upon
the trading of sculptures, paintings and musical works but upon what is produced. The
more that can be produced the better; and the more technology can be of aid, the better.
The greatest developments in the world have been technological?”technology raises the veil
covering the secrets of nature; social and cultural ideas and materials enshroud reality and
simply do not stand the test of time. This being the case, art and music courses should be
not a significant aspect of a person?™s education.
Read more... - ... by dfbdsf
People can learn every thing in the world,if they have a good teacher.A good teacher is one who is able to understand our strenghts,our weaknesses and our problems, by knowing this things, they should try to help us to perform different acctivities in which we are poor.According to me I think that parents are the best teachers.The reasion why I am supporting this statement is that,a newly born child can know everything with the help of there parents and a grown up child can solve there problem by discussing there problem with there parents.
Read more... - ... by Heba Amer
Some people think that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older (15 - 18 year old) teenage chidren while others think that they should not get involved in that. In my opinion I think that Parents should interfer in their kids\' decisions. This is for three reasons; First being more experienced, second knowing their benefit, Third is their caring Read more... - Teenagers above eighteen should make their own decisions wit... by Nagwa90
Teenagers above eighteen should have thier parents to make decisions for them, or they are supposed to make their own decisions? I personaly think that any person above eighteen is free to make any decision without the parents interferance. Since an adolescent older than eighteen must be responsible, independent and courages. Read more... - important decision from adult... by rahulpatel
i agree with that parents decision is always right. parents and adult relatives are biger than children. they have lot of experiace than small children. whenever they think their thinking is far than children\'s think.
children are think their benifits. they never think for other one.
Read more... - ... by rania762
Most of people agree that parents should make important decisions for their teenagers while others don’t believe this issue. In my opinion parents should make important decisions for their older children. That is because teenagers are not mature enough, not realistic and more emotional. Read more... - ... by dina99
Actually, I disagree with the statement said that i is important for teenage to let his parents or any other adult to take the teen ager\'s decision instead of him. Absolutely, I disagree, I made my opinion according to my essential factors in my point of view. For example ,not only parents should have the right thoughts, children’s psychology and sharing opinion with kids. Read more... - ... by heballah
I think that children should stay with their parents, and they have not move out of their parents’ home until they get married. Therefore, they could achieve many goals such as saving money, enjoying a comfortable accommodation, getting parents’ supporting in their adult stage and parents’ experiences. Read more... - ... by Robert
Children’s are the main nerve of every century and all centuries. They are the brain of our future that build it, try to find, try and explore. Currently there are many things who affect on the child’s personality, but in fact the children’s life is always with their parents. Hence, it’s the main environment which affect on his attitudes and believes Read more... - ... by Dideban
In my opinion, young adults choice of having their own space prior to their life time commitment is a good idea. At least three reasons convince me that living on one’s own will improve the adaptation to common life of that individual. First, living alone could bring new types-perhaps challenging kind of responsibilities to a young people perhaps they never experienced before such as cleaning and cooking, shopping, paying bills, and planning the necessary time. Dealing with these practical skills when they are dealt appropriately they return to individuals as gains in areas of time and money management. Once those whom living independently get married they are able to use their learned skills in their marriage equally so the necessary load can be distributed. Read more... - ... by despina
Being a mother of three children I greatly enjoy having them in my life and in my home. However, I know that there will be time in their life when they will leave home. For most of them it will be when they go to college or until they get married. But should we, as parents, keep them with us until that time? To begin with, let’s clarify that in the situation given when we say “children” we actually mean young adults, around the age of eighteen and older. Read more... - ... by nada08
Widely, at various places around the world, there are different life styles for children according to the traditions, customs and believes of the places they exist in. Most of them tend to live separately away from their parents at certain age while others may still living with their ancestors until they get married, but obviously, living away is such a useful idea. Read more... - ... by Karimrakha
Living with parents until marriage is an issue that people would conflict about. Some are convinced that being raised with mothers and fathers until they got married is the best choice. While others would see that it is more convenient to begin their own life as soon as they could. From my point of view, it is better to be independent whenever it is possible, as that will contribute in creating a distinctive personality. Read more... - Parents Vs Children... by Muhammad
Over the last days there was a very hot debate in the newspapers, it was about young people, to live with parents
or not to live. So over here we are going to discuss the props of accomodating with parants or to live independantly.
However from my point of view there are many advantages over its disadvantages, for example the negative side of being
attached to the parents is that young people always consider the gap between their generation and thier parents\' generation
in information and culture, At the other end of the tunnel the advantages are uncountable. Read more... - ... by tamer08
Sitting in a warm place embracing you throughout not only the walls but also the hearts of your family which provides love and care for you, watching TV, and discussing life problems as far as still the dream of any person in his life. Now life methods, streets approach and ways of success can not come to any body except through his family because they know what we cant recognize through their special vision, knowledge which they gained due their life the fact which helps their children to understand Abstract experiences in life, in order to get the magic key that opens any door in the world. Some may differ with me in the view and invites children to rely on themselves early and gain confidence early age, but I think that staying with parents is the tremendous energy of their acquisition of various life skills because they are the largest factory for building personal in the world. Read more... - Healthy parrent-kid realationships... by cindrealla
One of the most complicated human relations is the parent- teen relationship. from the down of history it concerned many people waether to give their teens absolute freedom to make their choices for whatever they like ,or they shoud make decisions for their beloved teenagers,and if it is healthy to make choices for a teen age son or daughter? Read more... - make decisions for children... by hahahaha
When I was 14 years old, my mother said: “Right, you aren’t a child. So you must make your decisions by yourself”. Still now, I always think that my mother was right. And I will not agree if parents and other adult relatives make important decisions for their older teenaged children. In the following discussing, I would like to address some evidences to substantiate my point of view. Read more... - ... by lithotroph
Yes I agree. Parents are very helpful for their children in taking critical decisons. This for the following reasons : Experience in life makes the person wiser in his decisions .Schools don\'t teach how to take decisions? And lastly this teen age brains are not mature enough. Read more... - ... by Kalidas
Even though there may be some value in having parents make deceisions for their teenagers, I stronly belive that most teenagers are
smart enough to make critical decions on their own. Teenagers have good mental maturity and are better aware of their
perticular situation, allowing them to make successful decisions. Through the years of education and their
own experiance, they can see right from wrong and choose an optimal path and tast the sucess. They are also less likely to make repeated mistakes.
Read more... - Parents making decison for their older teenage children... by mihail kir
First of all, I need to say that this is a complex situation and in order to comment it one has to have clear in mind all its features. When a parent makes a decision which could influence his child\'s entire life, like choosing the school and even a future career he or she should aknowledge the importance of this act. Usually, the adults believe that they now better than their children what is good or appropriate for them. In my opinion this is a a wrong point of departure. What makes us, humans, special beings is exactly our capacity of choosing how to live our lives. A person should be let to make an option and further to enjoy the benefits or suffer the losses that it may bring. It is about responsibility. Read more... - thyts@... by alexandra
If my mother,my father or other adult relatives should make important decisions for me i will be agree.I think that the parents give the best advices for their children,because the parents are pass this way.The parents and the relatives always thinks the best for their children and and thats why i think that they will should make the best decisions for older teenagers. Read more... - Parents vs Children about decision... by fenerbahce
It is important to try to get some advices from somebody who has more experience than you for an important decision. Probably nearest people who has more experience are our parents. But in my view parents shouldn’t make important decisions for their teenage children. Read more... - make the decision by ourselves... by aaaaaa
Everyone knows that parents love their children very much, so it is plausible that parents always decide everything for their children, ranging from the schools that they will attend to the career they will take up. Though sometimes parents can make some wiser decision than their children because of their experience, in my opinion, if we look at the bigger picture, we will find that making decision for children can jeopardize many aspects of children in the future. Read more... - ... by sadsdsfd
Undoubtedly, some people tend to agree with the statement that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their teenage chindren. However, the statement in my view has no ground in any aspect of children\'s learning process and I totally disgree with it but believe that parents and other adult relatives should give children opportunity to make certain important decisions. In the following, the rationale behind my standpoint is addressed. Read more... - Parents and teenagers... by ylab82
The relationship between parents and teenagers is a current issue specifically when important decisions have to be taken for these children. On the one hand there is a stance that parents or other adult relatives should be responsible of important decisions for their older teenage children because they assume that before eighteen they are still kid and they are not enough mature.On the other hand, it is often believed that between fifteen and eighteen,teenagers are enough older to make their own decision and to decide whether a situation is critical or not. However in the long run, I wholeheartedly agree with the idea that teenagers should take their own decisions by themselves. Read more... - Parents Vs. Teenagers!... by DJSASH!
The statement declares that parents and adults should make important decisions for their teenage children. Based on my experiences during my teenage years, I would most likely agree with the statement. Meanwhile, I have to add some points to the statement. Read more... - the practiceing for the fiust time... by richmau
Nowadays, more and more young people attend the universities for different reasons. According
to the survey, the main goal of what most of them do so is for career preparation. Read more... - Should parents make decision for teenagers?... by shilpa
\'Parents are the best teachers and guide\', I agree with this statement but I do not fully support the statement that parents or other older relatives should make important decisions for teenagers. Rather I feel that they should suggest and guide their children and help them to arrive at a good decision. Read more... - Teenager and decision... by binhdoan
It is quite obvious that most parents want the best for their children and therefore tend to influence them as long as possible. Since each of us was a child before we were facing this situation many times and know quite good how we tried to convinced our parents for our own ways. However this sometimes results into long discussions where at the end the parents decide what to do. After passing all these experiences as my parent\'s child on the one hand and raising my own child today on the other, I generally agree to this statement.
Following reasons support my opinion for this.
Read more... - Are parents decision correct for their children?... by Ayanon
I agree with that opinion that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for older teenage children, because I am an older teenage child and I always feel that my parents decisions are correct than mine. Read more... - ... by download
Parents or other adult relatives should not make decisions on behalf of their older teenage child. Nevertheless,
they must take an active part in the decision-making process of their offspring. They can use their knowledge and
experience to prevent their teenager from making costly mistakes while allowing him/her to gain confidence and
learn from his/her smaller errors so that he/she will be able to make mature decisions of his own in the future.
Read more... - children important decisions... by sakaieri
I think that parents or other adult relatives should not make important decisions for their older (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children. I decide on important things. Read more... - TWE Parents... by Doody dts
From the first day that the children born their parents look after them, take care of them, and serch for the best thing for them. All children have difficulty to can understand that until they become older and have children. Read more... - Making important decisions... by ANONYMOUS
There are a lot of kinds of parents that each has a different characteristic, and education ways. Some parents think always taking care and making decisions for the child is helpful, while other parents may think just leaving the child to learn by themselves is better. I believe leaving the child to let him or her learn a lesson alone is better. It can make the child to more think, and can also make him or her to consider about there decisions. Read more... - make decisions for teenagers... by ANONYMOUS
Do I have to work now or go to a college first? Which university is better for me? Such questions like these are the typical ones that the older teenage children may encounter with in their lives. It is very clear that every decision will definitely make difference in their future development. Then who are supposed to provide answers to these questions? Some people believe that it should be the children themselves to make decisions. However, others maintain that the parents should make decisions for their children. As for me, I agree with the latter opinion and the followings are the reasons: Read more... - Important decisions of teenage... by ANONYMOUS
Parents are the first teachers of every person. I agree with the statement that parents or adult relative should make important decisions for their teenage children. They teach us how to walk, talk, behave etc. , from the very first days of our life. In the due course we inculcate some of the characters of them and learn from them what is good or bad. Read more... - Make decision... by ANONYMOUS
What are the most important decisions should be made when you are at the age from fifteen to eighteen? As in China, the answer is to decide which kind of university and way of life fit you best. Parents or other adult relatives, as I see it, could not make such important decisions for their older teenage children. Instead, they need to offer some guidelines and let their children make their own choices. Read more... - Under 18... by ANONYMOUS
Children under 18 years can not take important descisions and people who must do that instead of them are their adult relatives.They are the people who best know what is good for you and will potect you from sure mistakes, that children can not see. Read more... - teenage children... by ANONYMOUS
As we know, the period from 15 to 18 years old is considered one of the important periods among teenage children. Hereby, every parent or other adult relatives should pay much attention to their children in this period. Nevertheless, their decision directly may influence their children’s future life. Read more... - Important decisions... by ANONYMOUS
When it comes to taking important decisions for teenage children people will have different opinions like some think that parents should take the decisions while others think that children should be given the freedom to make their own decisions. I partly agree and partly disagree with the statment that " parents or other relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children". Read more... - decide for your children... by ANONYMOUS
There has been a increasing controversy over whether parents or other adult relatives shoule make important decisions for their older teenage children. Although some diagree with this opinion, the mainstream view would like to defend it. Read more... - ---No title----... by ANONYMOUS
Important decisions usually be made by children's the parents or anyone supervising them. Till the children become adults, that time they will have their own thoughts derived from what they learned and also their higher experiences. But for the teenage children ,I think they still need older people to make important decisions for them. Read more... - Decision for teenager... by ANONYMOUS
Decision making is one of important skills in human life. It is indispensable part of mankind life and it needs to be improved by practicing. Moreover the older you are the more important decision you have to make. If you haven't got the opportunity of making decision before in teenage years you can't make good decision when you are adult. I absolutely disagree with making decision even important decision for teenager between 15 to 18, by teenager parents or older relatives, because of following reasons. Read more... - Decisions... by ANONYMOUS
Though being more experienced and knowledgeable of the demands and difficulties of life, I believe that parents or other adult relatives should not interfere or take the important decisions on behalf of their teenage children. Instead, they should guide them through advice to take decisions by themselves. The aforesaid opinion is ascribed to various reasons. Read more... - parents or other relatives... by ANONYMOUS
Older teenagers are not matured enough to make importantant decisions for themselves. They may think that they are correct, but actually it is not so. Therefore, I believe that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children. I support my opinion with the following reasons. Read more... - 61... by ANONYMOUS
When we are in the age of 15 to 18 year-old, we need to make some important decisions for our future career. For example, we need to decide which university we should enroll and in which field we should major. Some people hold the opinion that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children. Other, however, contradict it. Personally, I agree with the former, parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children. Read more... - Do you agree or disagree with... by ANONYMOUS
I agree with the statement that Parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teeenage children. Their are various reasons for me to beleive in the above topic like older people are more mature, they have seen the world, have had many experiences than children. Read more... - make decisions... by ANONYMOUS
It is well known that parents make all kinds of decisions not only for their children, but also for their older teenage children in eastern countries. And parents always treat their teenage children as babies. Although parents play an important role in their children’s life, I do not think it is a good idea to make decisions for their children during their adolescence. As far as I am concerned, parents should play an educational role which provides advises to their children, instead of making decisions for them. There are numerous reasons why I hold this opinion, and I would explore a few of them here. Read more... - alipile 44... by ANONYMOUS
From the beginning of history , human beings have been benefiting from others’ opinion but themselves to make better decision under different circumactances. Among these people parents and adult relatives have been more dependable for being teenagers’ decision makers. I support the role of parents and mature affinities in our decision making before the adulthood due to the following viewpoints: For the first place , parents and adults can imply differences between appropriate and inappropriate decision as well as their conclusions to children by their decision . Because , recognizing what is essential or not , is a hard job for a child in his/her teens. So parents act like a teacher to prepare their children for the future living. For the second , experiences are the important factors in critical decision makings , also , Parents are more experienced than their offspring. As a result, when adults are our decision makers ,the failure of decision results will become much less . Moreover, we can be confident more in our outcomes ,stemmed from expert sources. In short , if I am asked to choose parents as my decision makers in my teens , i support the role of them . since , they are more experienced than me , also they can manifest various aspects of the decision and the results as a teacher. Read more... - parents' advice... by ANONYMOUS
In China, parents have great effect on the growth of their children. According to confucianism, the dominant ideology of the Chinese people for thousands of years, everyone is required to follow his parents' will and should not contradict their wishes. However, with the social development and western influence, young people today are much more independent than their ancestors. Parents no longer have the absolute authority over their children. I think parents or other adult relatives should not make important decsions for their older teenage children, but they may give valuable advice or proper guidance in the process of making such decisions. Read more... - Taking decisions... by ANONYMOUS
I believe that a person should most of the time makes his decisions particularly the important ones by his own because that will accustom him, to depend on himself and judge things in a reasonable way. The absolution rejection that a person should not take the important decisions alone is, in my opinion, wrong. This is because every individual wants to be independent and free. Decisions should be based on the perspectives of the concerned person and not to what some other people think or believe. Read more... - Making importand decisions... by ANONYMOUS
I believe that every persons have to make important decisions for their lives. I had made a lot of them. Although it is not easy, I make an important decision by myself. Therefore, I do not agree that parents of other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children. Read more... - The importance of independence... by ANONYMOUS
In one's life,he always need to make some important decisions.But some of them just accept their parents' advice,not choose the way by themslves.I really can not agree with that.To my point of view,one should make some important decisions by himself.There are two reasons supporting my view. Read more... - Response to Topic 61... by ANONYMOUS
Some people believe that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children, but to be frank, I cannot agree that older teenage cannot make any decision about themselves, it should depend on the concrete situiation related to the decision, and sometimes they should be encouraged to make decisions dependently. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
It seems a little bit difficult to choose approval or disapproval between these two opinions, because they both have their own positive sides and negative sides. To some extent, it is hard to distinguish strictly, but this does not mean they are of the same to me. After weighing two distinctive features, I disagree with the above statement that adult family members should make important decisions for their older teenage children, if personal quality is considered as a criterion to choose things. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
If parents and other relatives should make important decisions for their teenage children or not is a controversial issue which shall be discussed in the following essay. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Teenage children are often placed in situations that can jeopardize their future well being. Therefore, parents should monitor the important decisions made by their children. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Making decisons is always part of our daily lives. We decide on what food to eat, clothes to where, the things were going to buy in the supermarket and other stuff in our job. There comes a time when a decision maybe wise or unwise, but for me it`s still a decision. Through this, people tend to learn from itand helps them grow maturely. Thats why, I strongly disagree with the statement that parents or adult relatives should make important decision for their older (15 to 18 year old) teenage children. In my opinion, teenage children should make their own decision because it will help them to grow maturely and be independent. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Some teenager children want to make their own decisions. Others ask their parents what to do. I must confess that when I have to make important decisions I always ask my parents what should I do. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
First of all, it is not easy to define if people at the age of 15 to 18 are adults or children because they are physically grown up and intelligent enough to carry out general work like adults do in a company, while a lot of them are under their parents` control. I believe that they should be able to make important decisions by themselves, no matter how hard for them. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Making decisions is very imoprtant in any person`s live. One decision may affect a person for the resr of his life. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
I do no think, that parent should make serious decisions for their teenage kids, but they can help. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
I firmly agree on the statement that parents should take important decision for teenage children.Parents by thier far experiences of life helps the teenage child in making correct decision.Parent are the right source for proper guidance,every decision made by parents always yield benefit for thier child,for some decision made by them may not yield result at same time but setup the stage for future. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Actually, older teenagers should learn how to make decisions by themself about their lives or other things. Maybe, they might choose some wrong decisions. However, through the experiances, they can learn their own independent mind or thinking. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Some of the ages in human life are very critical and the decisions that one makes affect all his/her life strongly. One of this important ages is the teen or ages 15 to 18. In this era one usually makes the bases of his/her future career and life. It may seem that because of lack of experience and enough knowledge it is better for children that their parents make important decisions for them but I think that that it is not always the correct way. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Parent should make important dicision for their teenage. I agree with the statement since the young adult at age between 14 to 18 they dont have enough experience and ability to make dicision to their life. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
We have to decide many things everyday in our life.Deciding what to eat,deciding what to wear,and deciding what to do,etc.As a result, making correct decisions becomes an important thing.So I agree that parents should make important decisions for their older teenage children.For this way,children can learn how to make decisions,and parents can point a better derection to children. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Ancient Chinese people were greatly influenced by our famous thinker and educator, Confucius, that children were private possessions of parents, so it was legal for parents to make any decision for them. Even today, many people still hold the opinion that parents or other adult relatives should make decisions for older teenager children. However I do believe it is parents’ responsibility to encourage these children to make up mind by themselves. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
In today’s fast paced society, parents and adult relatives play a significant role in shaping a child’s life. They teach them how to live, how to make a right decision, & struggle for achieving their goals. Most of the teenager think that they are able to make all decisions in their lives. In my opinion, I strongly agree that parents and adult relatives should make important decisions for their teenage children because teenagers are inexperienced, over-confident and do not realize the consequences that the important decisions can have on their lives. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Whether parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children is a prevalent topic undergoing serious debate. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
I agree the statement that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children. But only the important decision should be made, not other decisions. The reasons are given as follows. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
I disagree the statement. Parents or other adult relatives should not make important decisions for their older (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children. Their older teenage children should make the decisions by themself. The reasons are as below. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
The issue of whehter parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their teenage children arouses much controversy among people with different prespectives and backgrounds. Some people believe the statement is legistimate, because children are not mature and have not enough experiences to determine the optimal choise. On the other hand, people claim that no body can control other`s life even their parents. people should be resposible for their own behaviors and determine their lives. As far as I am concerned, I would like to refute the former and support the latter. In the following discussing, I would like to address some evidence to substantiate my point of view. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
Some people think that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for their older teenage children. In my opinion, I disagree with this statement. There are many reasons and examples to support my view. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
What should you do when the fate show a significant decision in front of you? Do you tend to make the decision by yourself of by others? Admittedly, some decisions have a startling influence on our life. And you maybe have a brilliant future because of a right decision. However, contradict; a blunder maybe destroys your whole life. Read more... - ... by ANONYMOUS
No one knows me as well as my parents. No one wants the best for me like my parents. It is natural that I should allow my parents to make important decisions for me. I think all older teenagers (15 to 18 year-olds) should take their parents advice on decisions that concern their education, their social life, and their future careers. Read more...
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